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Selasa, 23 Juli 2019

HOME - Where My Heart Belong and Grateful For


"People remind us of their gifts; God never reminds us. We have to remind ourselves to be mindful, to remember. The greatest gift is life itself" – Robert A Emmons (in Words of gratitude book)

Since sunrise, until night give greetings, they went through a long journey. Their feet begin to brittle to move, but complaining will not make everything alright. A crowd of people wearing buoys began to put their feet on a small boat. Drifted by the magnitude of the waves, the children cried, the cold pierced, and hunger could not be stopped. In some cases, the family gets separated especially because of uncertain fate. The most important thing is to survive, and how hope becomes their grip to keep them alive until they reach the land that is part of another country.


They perforce to leave their home because the environment in which they live there were wars, violence, or persecution. Whereas it is very valuable for them, but now everything that they have at home has been destroyed. Home becomes a nightmare, it endangers their life. Blood and someone body can be lying on the streets, there is no more security.  The camp became their first stop. They could stay there for months or even years before they finally got a status to permit live in a settlement, but there is limited access to get a settlement, and certainly not all of them could get it. Access to sanitation and food is sometimes difficult. Moreover, getting a comfortable bed and watching TV with the family. They miss their home, family, friends, school, office, the dish that they cooked together, the smell of the bread from their favorite local shop, how the breeze on the porch ran towards their faces, and so on.

I am interested in refugee issues, I often read books, articles, journals, and news about them. To get a visual image, I often watch documentary films about the experience story of refugees. The few paragraphs above are just a little illustration of how refugees are perforced to leave their homes and neighborhoods, do a long journey to someplace and most of them don’t bring any documents. They go without knowing what happen later to their fate and future. Sometimes people are not aware and realize something that they have is very valuable. Sometimes they are not aware that many people out there are praying to be able to have that. This is also happening to me. 


Sometimes I don't want to eat the food my mom makes, complaining why I can't play outdoors when it's raining, a tiff with my sister made me complain and said: "I hate her". But often reading and watching stories about the struggles of the refugees and the suffering they experience makes me very grateful for home and comfortable environment that I live with my family. People say home is where your heart belongs to. I am happy to have a home and neighborhood that is warm, comfortable, and safe as a place for me to grow up. At home, there are thousands of memories and stories that cannot be written, they are all so precious, ranging from joy or sorrow. Although occasionally scolded for my delinquency, the love and affection given by my parents are far greater. Even though tiff happened with my siblings, but their understanding of me was much greater. There is always food at the table, and I am happy every time I gather with my family to eat delicious food made by my mom.

When it's rain, I'm not getting wet and cold. When the sun is sweltering, I don't feel hot because there is a roof that always protects. When the night comes and I'm getting sleepy, I can go to my bedroom and sleep in a comfortable bed. In the morning, I have to go to school with a clean and tidy condition. I have a bathroom with abundant water for me to take a shower. When I get bored, I can watch cartoons on TV and laugh for funny jokes.  I love playing on the terrace and the yard, running around accompanied by the breeze. In the house, I also used to do my hobbies which is singing, drawing and coloring.



The warmth, safety, and comfort that exists in my home make me not afraid to have hopes and dreams. Since I pursuit an education for my undergraduate degree in another city, and following wander again to work makes me far away and cannot be home every day. But every time I go home, I always feel happy. My mom always welcomed me with her delicious dishes made especially for me. Even though my siblings didn't live in one house anymore with my parents because they were married, my siblings and their kids always visited my parents. So I often play with my niece and nephew whenever I'm at home. I am very grateful to have a comfortable home and neighborhood. I want to continue to feel comfortable, warm and safe every time I’m at home. I hope, someday things will get better for the refugees. I hope they always have passion and hope in their life. I hope the war in their country stops so that they can return to the things they miss, especially their home.




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